Bitter Truth

You are all by yourself. Sooner you realize it, the better. You are all alone in this world. No one cares about anyone, but themselves. Sooner you learn how to do that., the better. It is human nature, I guess, instinct of something. We are born in one whole piece, so it is silly to expect someone else to "complete" you. You are all by yourself and no one cares about you more than they care about themselves.

Never fully trust anyone. Everybody lies. There is not even a single person in this world who never lied in their lives. Some do more, some do less, but they all lie. When it comes to either benefit you by telling the truth, or lying for their own sake, they will lie. It is in human brain to keep its "owner" safe.

Never show your weaknesses to anyone. Person you open up to, will eventually use them against you, to manipulate you, to defeat you, to destroy you. You might think there is this one, special person, who will never want to hurt you....and that might be true for awhile...Until your interests cross. Until you have something to fight about. That is when there is no "illegal hold". There is no judge to tell you what is ok to use and what is not. Everything works as long as the goal is reached. Trust me, your weaknesses will be used against you.

And the last one. Never care more about anyone than you care about yourself, because that is what everyone else are doing. If you show someone you care about them more than about yourself...they will turn you into the door pad. They will know you can't turn your back on them, because you care. They will use you as much as they can, until there is nothing more left of you. Even if you think for a moment, that there is a person who cares about you more than they care about themselves....Forget about it. It's an illusion. No one cares. And if you start to not care about yourself...guess what? There is no one else out there.

If you get disappointed in someone, you have no one else to blame but yourself. You have put your trust in them,  it's not their fault. You have expected something that they never were able to provide you. You did that to yourself. 

Only you can help yourself. Don't count on others. Only you care about yourself. Don't think anyone else does. Only you are worth your trust. Don't ever trust someone 100%, always leave a place for a doubt.

If you still think you have a person who is "not like that"....I feel sorry for you, cause I do too....